Men, I got kicked out. What should I do? Serious advice?
What Guys Said 17
What did your roommate hate about "Bob?"1
Ok, why won't Bob take your kids? I mean, I understand that he doesn't have to but... I mean, if I even remotely cared about a girl, I'm taking her kids in. That said, wherever you go, your kids need to go with you so if Bob won't take your kids, you need to go live with your grandparents until you can figure things out. Whatever you do, you absolutely do not go to a different place than your kids because I promise you that if you do this, your kids may never forgive you.2
Do NOT leave them with anyone you know is abusive. There are shelters that will take you in and help you until you can find a place. Do you belong to a church? Ask for assistance. There are many compassionate people who would love to help.1
First of all I dont think thats allowed by law. By law she has to give you 1-3 months till you found a new place. You pay your share of the rent so its your right to stay.(and I think even if you wouldn't, you'd still had the tolerance time of 1-3 months Because she simply can't set you on the street.)
Talk to a lawyer.0
Take kids with you go to bob see how he reacts if he is chill about it you got yourself a new man. If he is angry then stay one night and go back to children dad and try to find new place to live, good luck0
I feel like there is a whole chunk of the story missing. I bet it's something along the lines how Bob brought crack and two of you got so high that you passed out and one of the kids almost died.2
Do you have the option of dropping Bob and staying? And what did your room mate find wrong with Bob?0
OMG please do NOT go back to somebody physically abusive!
I don't know if going with Bob is the right answer, it likely isn't since it's so early. I DO know that going back with your abusive baby daddy is the WRONG answer.
Of all the things I don't understand about women, the one thing I wish to God that I could change, would be that you would all STOP running back to the men who physically abuse you.
Like holy shit, I can understand why women don't like "Nice guys", but why you give abusive shitbags your affection is what drives me insane. It's the most maddening thing in existence seeing men treat women like punching bags and then be rewarded for it.
You always think that it'll be better, but it never is. The average amount of times it takes for abusive relationships to end is 12-14 (Yes seriously, look it up), please stay FAR away from any man who abuses you.0
How can your room mate kick you out? That's what leases and rental agreements are for.2
Grandparents home for a while and find a place to live. You just met Bob.1
If you're on the lease, your room mate cannot kick you out.1
How can your roommate kick you out if you both pay for the place?0
Bob never asked for this responsibility!0
Go with your kids to your At their grandparents0
I think you need professional counseling.0
Get your own place or stand up to your roommate0
Grandparents and find a place asap. leave Bob out of it for now!0
What Girls Said 1
Why can’t you take your children?
If your ex would harm you why are you considering leaving your children alone with him to go live with a man you barely know?1
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