How do I put this politely?

Haven't heard from this guy in a few days, how do I politely ask if it's intentional or if he's just busy. Straight up being like hey are you ghosting me is just a bit to passive agressive to me.

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  • You could simply ask, like: 'hey, what are you up to these days? ^^', or send him a completely irrelevant message like a funny picture. If he doesn't respond, it is intentional. If he does respond, he was likely just busy.

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  • I don't see what the problem with calling him out like that is... People who ghost are grade-A dickfaces.

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  • This is part of why I don't date or do relationships...

    You say you haven't heard from him... but that means he hasn't heard from you either. Who does the most initiating? if it's him, then it's your turn, if it's you, then it's his turn.

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    • I hadn't heard from him over the holidays, during which I sent a few messages. Christmas I tried a sending a Merry Christmas and got a reply saying "Merry Christmas <3 Sorry I kind of fell off the Earth". Sent him a message this morning, nothing.

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