Most Helpful Guy
Yes it kind of is. Though it's not as though there is a problem with that.
As for the pain there could be contributing factors. Firstly some girls have thinner tissue inside so are more sensitive thus the first time can be much more painful for some than others just off of that. Seconds the guys length and girth will play a role in this, if he was particularly big then again, it will be much more painful
Sex is fun after the first few times and essential part in most relationships so I would recommend trying to overcome this hurdle, you seems to want to but unfortunately that first time is just going to suck
Best of luck to you!
Most Helpful Girl
No it’s not too late, I was 23 and it was simply slightly uncomfortable for the first few moments. I had masturbated since I was 13 though and so knew my body well. I would suggest you purchase a small dildo but don’t try and insert it immediately. Put something on that turns you on or read something that turns you on. Give yourself time to get highly aroused, touch yourself to get to know yourself and naturally lubricated and slowly try to insert it. This might take a few sessions. there's no rush but it might increase your confidence that it’s not a big deal. It shouldn’t be painful. If it still is painful then there is a condition that could be causing it
Don’t waste any more time worrying about something that you’re missing out on. Sex can be amazing.