Can relationship issues diminish sex drive?

My boyfriend and i have been having a rough patch (due to incessant insecurity and jealousy on my part - although, some o his actions unintentionally and sometimes intentionally provoked these reactions from me). We have both come to the conclusion we need to better ourselves and the relationship. We have many, many, many goods times - this is why we are still together. Plus, we love each other dearly and have been together for 1.5 years. However, since September until about a week ago, the arguing has turned from 1x a week to nearly 3-5x a week.

I am wondering, can relationship conflict diminish a person’s sex drive (my boyfriend in particular) - he is less interested in sex with me now. I also notice he is being distant.

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  • Yeah for sure, the harsh times make your sesso less often. And arguing or fighting your partner is not a solution. I'd prefer telling things quiet and calm.

    Well if you're completely not happy with your partner/husband, you are to change something yourself (change your job, change your style, make your body moar fit). You will have a fast change in his behavior. If not, well you'll change the lazy bastid to someone moar suitable. I think that moar suitable guy will claim you.

    If you want to have a clue on happy relationships
    check that novel
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    If it does not work, well, the guy is not an option.

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  • It is a big turn off having arguments but the make up sex is always good. I would suspect and not good to say it, but if the make up sex isn't happening then there is something going on with the boyfriend.

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  • yes, this happened with my ex wife. we had so many conflicts and issues that I didn't even want to have sex with her. It only lasted about a 4 months after that point before it fell apart into divorce.

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  • Yes...

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  • Oh yeah totally. If that happens to me I often times feel resentment and am turned off.

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