We are both from very different cultures and there are clashes that cannot be solved. He says there’s too much at stake to lose and he just keeps coming back especially this time round after I called it off. We broke off for many reasons from culture clashes, me being put off by his controlling side.
I feel like I’m done because of all the drama and tears that he has given me, but he says how no relationship is perfect and we can get through it.
He won’t give up. Why does he keep coming back? What should I do on the FIFTH time? Should I just be completely clear with him now?
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Be upfront. Be assertive with him. State what you've stated here , that your it's not working. And that you're ending it for good. It's reasonable to say.
Set boundaries, and take control of your life by refusing to allow him back. If you need to, cut all means of contact with him.. You're letting him cling onto false hope by keep taking him back. He'll think he can come and go as he pleases. People can only control you if you allow them to.
It'll not work a fifth time , because he knows he doesn't need to change in order for you to take him back.