Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, forget her! If she doesn't want you for you then there ain't nothing to dwell over. Find you a chick that's gonna like you. Maybe gingers aren't her "thing", but damn sis could've been more open to the idea than just saying "no you're ginger".
Most Helpful Guy
Are you from the UK? Because I noticed that my European co-workers REALLY don't dig the redhead, especially the male ones. That said, I don't think Americans judge redheads nearly as harshly. Assuming you have some marketable skills, maybe you should come out here and hit on some American women instead?