How tall are you?
Anywhere from 5’5-5’10 is perfect in my opinion
still*; sorry for the typo. 😅But with a height above 5'9" you can make money with your looks (aka modelling) while in university. 😂
Maybe for modeling but not for dating
You have a point, especially because I like to be the shorter one in a relationship. 😶
Would it be a deal breaker if he was 5’6?
Yes. I'm shallow that way, if you want to think about it that way. I can't be attracted to short guys, no matter how attractive they are in other ways.
What if he was 5’7-5’8?
Still too short. I wear heels on a daily basis, and shorter guys tend to have a big insecurity about it and they will spend most of the time pointing out how tall you are. My deskmate in school is 5'5" and he thinks I'm a giant...
What if he didn’t care if you wore heels?
I still wouldn't like being the bigger one. I want to be the smaller one. Shortness is my deal braker, no matter how much you (or anyone else for that matter) try to change my opinion, you won't succeed.
What if he wore heel lifts and you thought he was 5’9-5’10, started dating him, and then you found out later that he was only 5’7-5’8? Would you break up with him?
Heel lifts are obvious, I'm good with noticing details. I don't wear make-up or push-up bras, so I'm not lying about my appearance (high heels are obvious), so I will most probably break up with him if he lied about his.
Heel lifts are not high heels, they go in the shoes. So let me get this straight, it’s ok for girls to wear high heels and demand their guy be taller than them in heels but it’s not ok for guys to put lifts in their shoes, even though high heels were originally invented for men so they would always be taller than their girl? If that’s not messed up I don’t know what is
High heels are obvious, heel lifts should be a secret (so to say). You can't compare the two. A better comparison would be padded bras which make the boobs appear 3 cups larger. When you take her clothes off, wouldn't you feel cheated? And I want the guy I'm dating to be at least 3 inches taller than me (I have 6 inch tall heels too, so in those I'm going to be taller than a guy who is 5'9"), because that way, when we are hugging, I can put my head on his chest.
If the guy doesn’t care about your heels, I don’t see why you would. Do I prefer girls with big boobs? Yes! Are boobs a requirement for dating? No! It’s one thing to have a preference, it’s another thing when a preference becomes a deal breaker. If I filtered out every girl that wasn’t 100% my preference, there wouldn’t be any girls left for me to date! Id rather keep my dating pool wide open than narrow it down to almost no one
In your eyes I'm so shallow that I won't find anyone to date, and jokes on you, I am in a long term, happy relationship. :pHeight is a deal breaker, being overweight is a deal braker (unless he works towards it; but it doesn't mean he has to be ripped or to have a body fat percentage in the single digit category), but I don't care about hair, eye, skin colour till I find him attractive overall. Personality wise he has to have ambition, some common hobbies/interests and to be able to get along. So, I don't think I'm impossibly shallow just for this genetic-dealbraker.
I would agree that being overweight is definitely a deal breaker, but if you’re filtering people based on height you are severely limiting your number of partners. Girls like that will still end up with someone, but it’s usually an ugly dude to be honest
Actually, 5'9" is the average height for men, so by weeding out dudes <5'8", you are weeding out only a minority. And not every average heighted or taller dude is ugly. I have seen equally as many ugly shorter dudes as taller.
So you would date a guy that’s 5’8?
Wow since when is a guy that’s taller than a girl not tall enough
Again boob analogy comes in, A cup boobs are bigger than yours, but you still would consider them too small.
No I wouldn’t actually! If I thought the girl was hot overall I wouldn’t care if she has a cups. There shouldn’t be one thing that makes it a deal breaker
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The average is between 5’4 and 5’5 actually
It depends where u live
Yeah it's different here
Where do you live?
I think the U. K. average guys and girls height is 1 inch below US average height
There are some places where the average woman is 5’6-5’7!
The average in the UK is actually 5'5 of 2016. Not 5'3
No I just looked it up and it's 5ft 3"
Want to link me it?
I'll appreciate that greatly
Okay 2 secs
Gonna go with you have no proof and are wrong then lol
No I just couldn't be assed to link it
What about you?
I'm a pretty tall guy, my girlfriend is around 5'6, im about 6'3 if I'm not mistaken
Anywhere from 5’5-5’9 is fine! Why would you wanna be under 5’3?
Because under 5'3" is super cute and tiny. I live on Asia so me being 5'5" makes me the same size as most guys. When I wear heels I'm taller than all my guy Freinds. I can't even hug them if I wear heels cuz their face is chest height... Makes hugging too sexual
I’m not that tall and I am honestly not interested in girls 5’3 and under. 5’5 is perfect, who cares if you’re as big as the guys, what’s wrong with that? It’s not the end of the world if your heels make you taller than them!
But I like guys who can pick me up and carry me. Its oddly my favorite thing to be carried by guys. My ex boyfriend carried me to be every night and I loved it. And if a guy is smaller than me its not really the same feeling. But I've also dated a guy who was 5'4. And he could still carry me and do standing positions in sex lifting my whole body.
Why would that matter?
What if her guy was the same height?
5’6-5’9 is the Goldilocks zone
Yea that's good
Shorter is better
Why is that? How tall are you?
So what’s wrong with a girl that’s 5’11?
5’7-5’11. Maybe for models but that’s pretty tall otherwise. Nothing wrong with it, I like girls that are 5’7-5’9, but if she’s 5’11 she might be too tall for her guy.
I’m only 5’ 8”
Would it be a deal breaker if she was 5’8-5’9?
No, that would be fine.
What if she was 5’10-5’11?
That may be a little too tall.
I’m 5’8, I think I would date a girl that’s 5’11, no taller though
Haha, I mean I could possibly date her if she had a really good personality.
It’s not that much of a difference, I don’t see why it would matter
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