What if he has a rather lumpy skull?
Ehm, its very important what the women a guy is attracted to think about him, since obviously he's trying to win them over. So its in his best interest to use whichever approach that maximizes his chances
If that's what he's most comfortable with, then sure thing.
But what is your actual opinion about this? If a guy is 21 and balding, but still wants to attract women his age, and he's comfortable with both approaches. Which approach would get him most dates, hair piece or clean shaven bald?
Most dates, no idea. I'd prefer him to just be comfortable with himself, without feeling like he had to resort to fake stuff just to feel acceptable to shallow people who don't even bother to get to know him before judging him. But then, I'm probably not the kind of girl he's trying to get on the good side of.Regardless of general preferences though, I think it depends on the guy too. Some guys can really pull it off, some really can't.
Ok, but the thing about going bald is that, its out of your control, you dont choose it, and you're stuck with it. So what happens if a guy is balding but for whatever reason cannot pull it off. Maybe he has giant ears that become accentuated as he has no hair, or he has a very lumpy skull. What then?
Then he has to decide which is more important to him - keep appearances up for the people who'll judge him at a glance, or those that will know him for who he really is. There is no right or wrong answer here, it's strictly personal preference. Hair doesn't make you a better or worse person, regardless of whether it's attached to you or not.But if a girl would not give you a second glance if you were bald, what would her reaction be if she does get to know you because of a hairpiece, and then finds out about it? Have you really gained something if you wasted time and effort on her only to have her judge you for it after all?
The thing is people have different priorities at different ages. If you're 21 and at university, people are mostly looking to meet new people and have fun. So almost everyone is shallow.Commitment and relationships come later, thats why if I went bald at 40, I probably wouldn't care.And even if I wore a hairpiece and tricked a girl into liking me, I could never sustain a long term relationship with her if I knew she wasn't attracted to bald guys. But I would much rather have some fun with her a week, 2 weeks, 1 month you name it, and then break up with her before she breaks up with me, and move on to the next girl. Rather than being rejected on first glance and walking home and feeling ugly and worthless
Then by all means, go for it.
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