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I think it's right of you to distance yourself until he figures out what he wants. As for the commitment thing, I don't think that's what's scaring him. Everyone is always so ready to receive the benefits of a relationship that they ignore how much work has to be put into it. These trivial arguments are an example of where you both need to work in your relationship. When faced with a problem and no solution, a guy can be easily discouraged from wanting to continue a relationship. He's trying to have the good parts without dealing with any of the bad parts. Tough cookies for him.
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