He hasn't said anything clear to indicate he likes me nor did I. But every chance we get to hangout, we do (he studies and I work full time so our schedule only allows us to see eachother about once a week but we do text a little in between dates).
So basically we are going with the flow. It is clear he likes my company and I do too.
Is it necessary to have the girlfriend/boyfriend talk or should I wait a little longer?
Even though I am 24 (he is 28) it would be my first official relationship so I guess I have no idea how to even approach the subject with him without screwing up what we have going on. Any suggestions on how to bring it up casually?
Most Helpful Guy
If you feel a need to clarify what you each want out of the relationship, then yes, bring up the topic. But if you don't feel a need to know at this point, waiting a while longer if fine. There are some advantages in waiting, as it lets things go in a more natural way. But if sex is right around the corner, it's best to get some clarity before that.
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Most Helpful Girl
I would just be upfront and ask what he's looking for! You could just say "Hey so I'm just wondering where we are going with this. Are you looking for a relationship or is that not a main concern for you right now?"
Men like upfront woman and maybe he feels the same! On the other hand, don't continue to pester him if he doesn't give a straight answer - he probably doesn't want a relationship then! For your sake, I would figure it out before you start developing deeper feelings and find yourself feeling stuck and confused. Hopes this helps!