I’m very tired of restarting relationships and I personally don’t want to jump into one right now, I need to get my life back on track and the breakups have been very disruptive that I can’t do anything else. I want to just tell him that. Would you wait for someone if they aren’t ready to jump back into a relationship with you?
Most Helpful Guy
You need to stop repeating the same mistakes. The New Year is a good excuse to leave that ex behind, not invite him back into your life to repeat the same behaviour.
Women never seem to be able to let their ex bfs go, they are always jumping back into their bed, arms, or messages. Let it go!1
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him that. You’ve tried to make it work multiple times already. It doesn’t and you both know that it doesn’t work.
You need to tell him that you’re not interested in getting back together and that you never will be again. You want to focus on yourself, and that doesn’t make you selfish. He’s just exhausting and too much drama.2