i disagree with you
Women don't owe guys a hug because the guy paid for a date. Ick.
@slatyb I didn't say she Owed him one did I?I did come on strong, so I'm going to take a step back.Original poster, why do you feel like you were opposed to hugging him? Did you lose attraction to him, was he being a jerk? Or did everything go well and you just didn't want to huge him for whatever reason?I mean, if a woman didn't want to hug me... but had clarified that she had just gotten out of a physically abusive relationship that's one thing. The lack of a hug does strike me as very unusual though.
I never expect anything from a date. If the first date is enjoyable then I will ask for a second, whether or not I get a hug or kiss or whatever. There can be great mutual interest but she may not be ready after one date. As long as there's interest I can be patient.
@slatyb I feel like I need to watch just in case he's gonna use me and then ghost me.
Do you mean the same guy or guys in general?
@slatyb no not every guy i always get the gut feeling that I'm dealing with a playa so i don't show any affection at all
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I dont think i ever been rejected a huge. I would think you have problems with simple affection. Have you been physically abused before or is it some other reason
thank you this is great advice
sorry for the typos-rough night
what do you mean
Meaning you don't owe them a hug or a kiss. Just to show up for the date or at least provide an explanation why you won't show up
ah i see now haha