Boyfriend plays a lot of videogames?

My boyfriend is more interested in video games than having sex with me. It's kind of upsetting is that valid or no what do you guys think? Would that annoy you or not ladies? Guys... why? I don't get it!

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  • Your feelings are always valid! You need to tell him how you feel if you haven't already? And if you tell him and he still chooses games, then you've got a problem and you'll have to have a more serious talk with him about it.

    Having said that, I've never been a "gamer", but I can see/understand the addiction to them very much. You can totally get "lost" and so involved in a game that you totally aren't "in the moment". Like, you're so into it, your mind is on it 100%, you're not thinking about anything else nor does it matter at that particular moment. Totally preoccupied. But... depending on the guy, don't assume that he doesn't care about you. So, yeah talk to him.

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  • It's normal if he's a gamer. It's something u should have known beforehand. Try to talk to him and if talking doesn't work, it's time to move on

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What Guys Said 22

  • Video games are addictive ways of escaping our problems. If your having problems then you may find it very hard to get him away from his console. It's not good that he is so deep into his games to not notice you. You need to try find some middle ground where he can enjoy his platform of escapism and space for you both to be a couple

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  • Why does he even have a girlfriend if he doesn't want to take care of her?

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    • Because he wants the best of both worlds always. He gets to live with me and 4 of his best friends... Talk about having your cake and eating it too..

    • That's what I hate, people who are only ready to take the good side of everything, without assuming the responsabilities. I really like gaming, but I'd rather take care of my girlfriend if she wants to spend some time with me or she feels lonely.

  • Addiction. End of the Story. Even if he denies it.

    An addiction is not when you simply like something so much, so that you won't stop.

    Its when it starts being a Problem.. interfering in your relationships, workplace etc. but the person still won't stop.

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  • Become a gamer too!

    No but seriously if he's more interested in games than sex, for new games that's fairly normal, if it's something he's had for a while then it might have something to do with you.

    So you can try make sex fun with some new ideas or make it clear what certain time is for. Ie. Candles, dim lights etc

    He may not even realise that you think he is more interested in games than sex.

    If that fails try to join him in his passion.

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  • videos games are providing reward and achievement for him
    he has no need to get it somewhere else... because the brain is getting satisfied though the accomplishments in the game itself

    video games are bad kids lol

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  • Wow. How can one choose video games over sex, especially when his girlfriend wants to have sex? Wow, some guys have everything.

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  • Makes no sense there is literally nothing a game can provide that is better than sex.. If he is choosing the game over you then you need to find someone that appreciates a woman and her needs

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  • if he prefers video games to sex he is just fucked in the head always know what to prioritize. And thats a no brainer

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  • Try seducing him. If he's still playing games instead of hitting he's probably gay.

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  • I'm a gamer and I'd prioritize my relationship above games. Does he realize you want to have sex?

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    • Yes I mentioned it a lot. I always have to try to plan it days ahead of time, it rarely just happens in the heat of the moment anymore. When we were home for Christmas he was so horny and that desire came back (3 days without playing video games) pretty interesting and now that we are back home it's back to that as the top priority

  • Step in front of the TV and strip for him. That'll get his attention

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  • Guys rilly like there video games what you should do is get smart on the video games he plays then you can get his attention

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  • Play games with him. When Game Over time happens try to get him to play with you.

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  • He's not boyfriend material! Dump his ass and get a guy that'll fuck you wherever and whenever!

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  • Get a new boy friend, personally I hate playing video games

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  • You can't force someone to have sex with you... it's called rape...

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  • I would take time to be with you and you shoukd not be his girlfriend

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  • Here's an idea... Play with him

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  • I would pick sex over games no problem

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  • DUMP.

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What Girls Said 4

  • It is totally valid to feel this way. If your partner is interested in somthing/one else, than communication is key here. Because this is about sex, that doesn't change the steps taken.

    1. Find some time alone
    2. Don't be forward about the issue. Try to make him say it
    3. Once he has realised the issue, discuss appropriately

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  • My boyfriend doesn't drink, play videogames, or watch porn... I know, I know it sounds impossible... I'm constantly impressed, and guys are absolutely amazing when they aren't getting their dopamine hit elsewhere.

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    • Is playing video games a bad thing?

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    • Ohh ok 👍 thanks for explaining.

    • @lala_ray thank you for asking :)

  • When you find out lmk sis 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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  • It doesn't annoy me, because I play video games just as much as he does.

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