I’ve noticed that if I imply in any way that women are paying attention to me, nobody will give me advice. It’s a new thing for me that I don’t know what to do with. But nobody would help unless I cut out the part where girls are interested in me. You’d think it’s a good thing but I’m basically I giant loser nerd weirdo who became hot over night. I’ve been trying to figure this shit out and it’s been fun yet weird and frustrating cuz I’m naturally such a loser lol. I try to get help but if I imply girls are into me I get none.
Girls suddenly are extremely shy around me too! If they aren’t hitting on me they are nervous and dropping shit, stumbling, and messing up words. I thought that was fake shit the movies lied to us about. Girls never get nervous around a guy like that! Now I see it every day. It’s frustrating wtf do I do? But if I ask... nobody wants to help! Cuz I’m lucky girls are doing these things at all! I know! But still cmon give a fellow loser who kinda made it some tips bruh. I would if I could...
So let's cut to the chase: what wxactly do you need?About the "hot overnight" thing, It happened to me after losing a ton of weight suddenly guys wwre hitting on me and wanting me and I was still insecure and didn't know what to do. I will tell you you probably have to learn it for yourself, see what dating is from the perspective of the hot guy. You learn as you go, is all I'm saying. Nonetheless, this is a safe place, ask away.
Yes I lost a ton of weight too! But I still have a lot of social anxiety. If I’m interested in a girl who is nervous around me I don’t know what to do. I guess you’re right all I can do is learn for myself I guess.
Yeah there's no way around it.. you'll make some mistakes and that's part of the deal... For the example you gave about the nervousness: try to be chilled! Try to show that it's no big deal, try to ask about her to make her open up. People tend to mirror each other, so if you're shy and nervous so will she (probably) be
They do? What is that stigma?
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