We’ve worked together a couple of years. He’s a senior partner. I left and joined another firm but had dinner with him for advice on an old account
My guess is he has enough respect to be polite but wanted to be done with the conversation. I wouldn't say he ghosted you but ended the conversation. What are you looking for?
I was hoping for something more. A friendship that could turn romantic but I think I need to step up my texting and flirting game and look outside of my work network
How often do you see this guy?
Never unless we schedule something. I’ve had dinner with him twice since I started my new job in Sept. His suggestion to grab drinks
So he's asked you out a couple of times in the lafew months? Are you around the same age?
He’s a lot older. He’s 48
I kind of guessed that. You're sure he's single?
I’m not sure and didn’t want to seem obvious by asking. He has never mentioned a girlfriend but has talked in the past about women he’s date. Now that I think of it I’m not sure what his intentions were when he asked me for drinks. He’s not the type who’s lonely
He doesn't wear a ring?
No he’s never been married and doesn’t see himself getting married.
And he's 48? If he's always been a bachelor thats a big red flag! Keep looking
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