Why cutting ties with him is important?
Let's say he is thrown into a group of players and becomes the fish out of water, face rubbed into all the good intimate times she left with NO current relationship inroads built up to the level, hard to compete, threats of any investments in her to be lostHer laughter, smiles & maybe even looks may be translated into her longing for the past, no matter what she says
are YOU this gal?
guess you are not kidding?OK, I'll play a bit longerare YOU the ex girlfriend(ref. to question above)
Then in your case, NOonly because you are not "getting it" how your new boyfriend would FEELbeing a fish out of water if dumped into this dry land of players from your past constantly (& even once in awhile). That's why cutting all ties with these past jocks is so important, even if your new guy IS a jock.You are an empathetic soul, yes?
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I wouldn't date her unless she has a steady income of her own. Also with a bit of longevity behind it.