What does it mean when a guy puts his hand on your inner thigh while driving?

I am “seeing” someone and he says it isn’t casual but who truly knows. When he drives he places his hand on my thigh, is this affectionate, sexual, friendly etc?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is beyond friendly but it's not 100% clear whether it's more affectionate or sexual because it somewhat falls between those two camps. You don't touch an inner thigh without at least some sexual comfort, but then if you do no more than that and you have already previously shared intimacy then it may be more affection based on a certain level of comfort.

  • You aren't seriously asking if him putting his hand on your inner thigh is a sexual advance are You?

    Isn't that obvious?

    If you're seeing someone and he's doing that I wish you the best if luck telling your partner about it. I don't think it's gonna end well for you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's sexual if it's towards your private's. You shouldn't allow anybody to do that to you especially when you're not comfortable. Speak up. Yoru obviously worried about it.

  • He wants the v. The inner thigh is such a sexual area that groping it against a persons will is considered sexual assault the same way as groping a butt or breasts.

  • its deffo sexual, you said it yourself though - your relationship is casual, if you want it to be more why don't you discuss it with him?

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  • Protective, and probably sexual

  • He's thinking about getting you in bed most likely. Maybe not right then and there, but soon. He's into you, or at least wants to be.

  • It's sexual. He's testing whether you'll slide toward him and let your knees fall apart or whether you will slide away from him and bring your knees together. It sounds like you prefer the latter.

  • sexual the most

  • Sensual/sexual

  • He wants KFC.

  • Yes, yes, yes. Inner thigh should be kind of a intimate pace to be touched and his ability to do so says you approve. It friendly ok, suggestively friendly.

  • It's affectionate and sexual. Lol what else would it be?

    How does it make you feel when he does that?

  • It's affectionate and sexual.

  • You kinda turn him on... its a sexual behaviour

    • So it doesn’t imply that he actually has feelings for me?

    • No. Men can be turned on by women they don't even like.

  • Two ways this would go, if he's​ driving an automatic then it's sexual.
    If he's driving a manual then he's reallly sexual , ain't no time to mess around with dat when you got a stick In your hand.

  • It means he is not driving MANUAL!!

  • Make you feel aroused for a hot car sex... Which is amazing...

  • It's affectionate... i used to do the same thing when and my ex were in the car but it can lead to more lol but for me it was a way of showing affection

  • Affectionate and he is testing to see if you let him do it.

  • He just loves or like a you or trying to get you wett

  • It can b both affectionate nd sexual. It depends on hw long u knw each other and how u both were being together

  • Exploring the nuances of a man placing his hand on a woman's thigh while driving, I've found that this gesture can have a variety of meanings, often rooted in the nature of their relationship and the context of the action.

    • Attraction: This touch can indicate attraction, especially if accompanied by romantic or flirtatious conversation.
    • Dominance: It can sometimes reflect a desire to assert dominance or a claim over the partner, especially if the touch is firm or commanding.
    • Comfort: In moments of vulnerability, this gesture might be comforting, offering support and presence.
    • Desire for More: If the relationship is still at the friendship stage, such a touch could signal a desire to take the relationship to a more intimate level.
    • Support: It can also symbolize the man viewing the woman as a strong and supportive partner, especially if occurring during discussions about future plans.
    • Accidental: Sometimes, the touch might be purely accidental, especially in the confined space of a car.
    • Casual: If there's a close and comfortable friendship, the touch might be casual and impulsive, not necessarily carrying a deeper significance.

    Each interpretation depends heavily on the specific dynamics of the relationship, the context of the situation, and the individuals' history and behavior patterns.

    Understanding these subtleties is key to deciphering the true intent behind such gestures. If ever in doubt, open communication about these actions can provide clarity and ensure mutual comfort and respect in the relationship. Feel free to check out my post on Relationship Explained for more details on any of these points!

  • He wants sex.

  • I love legs and I do this basically every time me and my girl went somewhere. I just rest my hand there. Maybe squeeze a little but that's it.