Mine is. He is very rich and takes care of himself well. But when it comes to me, seems like he's trying to spend as little as possible. Couple of days ago he got me a gift, first gift ever (he didn't even buy me one for my birthday) - it worths literally 2 dollars. Or for example, a while ago we went out with my best friend, he was spending money on shots (for himself) and tips, but in the end of the night he said to me "Your friend will give me money for her food, right?". Isn't this a total turn off?