You make a great point. Right now my life is all about books and no fun so I can't really do it.
He's not stable now. He lives with the mother and her parents.
Wow.Well, unless you want your life to be ruled by your boyfriend's ex girlfriend's mother, I advise you to get out of that relationship.
I'm not with him. I used to be and he asked me to be with him again. I just can't, to much baggage.
Yes. I mean, I understand that you have feelings for hi. But you can't live out of love. And now he just isn't showine any sig that he's a responsible person that you can build life with.
Exactly! Plus I really don't want to deal with baby momma drama.
You're right. You're young, there are plenty of other good men who don't have kids. :)
I'm 21. Right now it's all college no fun lol.
College even better. If your hot then go on the weekends and have fun. Your too young to be focused on a guy with 3 kids. Trust me u will thank me in the long run 🤛🏻
I'm sure I will lol. I don't really have friends. They all turned to drugs. Thank you.
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I do want at least one child two tops. He said he could have hundreds "the more the better".
He's divorcing the mother.
Yes he is
Talk about tying yourself down at a young age! I would pass
Do they all have the same mother?
Yes. He married her after she got pregnant. She was a one night stand
Then they proceeded to have 2 more by the age of 20?
He was 17 with the first one.
Oh my! At least he did the right thing
That's what he says lol
However, he must have really wanted kids! Once is an oops but 3 times?
He did want children
To each his own. After a shotgun wedding I might give it a minute before having 3
Agreed. No matter how much I love him I can't do it.
I don't blame you a bit
Why do you think you won't be another woman he has a child with and then leaves?
He was my first love, I was his. I guess for some reason I thought for a second I was special.
Do you think the mother (s) of his children thought she/they were special?
She kind of trapped him so not at the beginning, but now probably yes.
I said no. He's 20 with 3
oh, i thought you were the one.He sounds like a good man
I don't have any.
funny how people view it dif when they think the kids are the womans lol
@SouthpawPablo right!!! I'm like the tf? I'm to much but he's a good man.. ? O. o
@SouthpawPablo yeah, a woman with several different kids from different fathers. yeah not gonna happen
so if its a man with different kids from dif mothers thats ok?
@SouthpawPablo yes. the mother's must be irresponsible in some way that would deem the father to be a more suitable parent.bcoz in divorce court it's the woman who usually gets custody of the children.
@2opaz omfg your dum she already said she's not the one with the kids it was a guy who asked her out and im asking in general and how can it make ok for A man and not a woman i won't say there isn't a difference because there is but it can't be better or worse for a man or woman simply because they are a man or a woman
@SouthpawPablo fuck off my thread 🖕
@SouthpawPablo Sheldon Cooper head ass
@2opaz cry more because your a sexist asshole and i called you on it and its not your thread its anons btch
Ugh my bad. I followed you. Thanks for sticking up for me and like every other girl lol. You're awesome!
no problem and i did it because its what i believe nothing more nothing less this world needs to become a better place and we all need to start doing more and talking about it less I choose to love vs fight but when someones a pos they are a pos and i can't change that by ignoring it
@SouthpawPablo much agree with you. I like what you said that is all. Hopefully there are other good people in this world like you. It's rare now a days.
No thanks for being nice and being honest it is also rare now ah days also and any time I got good peoples backs man or woman ^-^
@SouthpawPablo dude you are an idiot. The mother usually gains custody in divorce court. did you even read what I said or do you posses the ability to even comprehend basic statistics?
I dont base content of character by the decisions the courts make and if you had actual real. world wisdom you would not either
@SouthpawPablo Are you stupid? The court places the child in the hands of the most responsible parent. FFS it's like im talking to a brick wall
considering they are you kids you would of started that life long ago and not be starting it at the 3rd of 4th kid
@SouthpawPablo they're not mine. I don't have any
i was replying to mack today he said sure if they are his kids
@SouthpawPablo oh my bad. Lol. A lot of people think they're mine. You make a good point lol.
Really? So If a girl had 5 kids, not yours. You'd date her?
8 would be the cut-off point.
O. o damn
Nah, I am just playing. Even one would be a deal breaker for me 😅
Oh thank god. I was feeling like am asshole. Lol
Even if you were in love? I am and still said no.
He's 20 with 3.
Holy crap! I would not do that personally.
Right! Thanks !
Haha. I do love him but i can't do it girl lol. I'm sprinting away!
Yeah you don’t wanna be the 5th baby momma. I think I would definitely date someone with kids if I had them tho.
I'd be the second.
Oh lol yeah still run but he if you like him and he’s a good person and fathers who’s anyone too tell you get away
Thank you. I honestly believe it's to much even if I love him.
What about married ones?
of course not. why would i help a woman cheat?
Just asking given you singled out single mothers
with 3-4 kidsthat was the question
“No, I don’t single mothers.” Was your answer. No reference to quantity.
she said she has kids. i said i dont date single mothers. that was the question
I don't have kids. The guy i have deep feelings for does. 3 kids at 20
yeah, i wouldn't get involved, it's just too much
I said no, just questioning my choice. I believe I did the right thing.
Given reading some of your comments - my mum had 5 kids. She is with her boyfriend now.Yeah he raped his grandkids, but she is very happy with him, and it never effected us! So yup, she started a new life with 5 kids ignored!