Hhh yea that's true, you are a smart devil lol 😉
why does it matter though?
@UnaKaizen For some it does... i like the traditional methods of boy meets girl, so id definitely prefer him to.
im not a boy so i like girl meets boy. itd be weird if i had to be a boy to meet people :)
but also if you're using body language you're still making the first move. i mean if he knows what it means and you know what it means then everyone knows what it means which is you making a move to kiss him. to make it happen. im just speaking on technicality.
@UnaKaizen Yeah but its subconscious signals, in his mind he has still taken the initiative. When he goes back to his mates and tells them the story, he will say he made it. Not that she gave the right type of body language.
but you're aware of whether or not you want to kiss him and of what you are doing people dont accidentally learn how to make the right move. when he asks should i kiss her people will sty if she does x y z she wants you to kiss her. so he knows you're doing it on purpose. its still a move regardless of what he tells his friends. so its boy meets girl and tells his friends' ;pyou're saying the problem is him being aware that you are aware that you of want to kiss him? or just that you and he physically want him to make first contact?but then women touch arms and stuff to let a guy know, so I don't know it just seems like a lot of trouble for the same thing.
@UnaKaizen lol, i dunno... im pretty good at it, i am yet to have a guy question what he should do when i give the right eye contact etc :)
which yo do on purpose.. so you're making the first move. :)
@UnaKaizen Well technically then i guess i am... but still, it makes me feel good to do it subliminally rather than physically.
Ah, that's great!
You're definitely welcome! Thank you for the MHO.
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I couldn't agree more with the first part!For the second part, that sounds weird. Just kiss him. :P
That's not the problem. In my case, that is. My boyfriend's shy, that's why I asked this question. I didn't ask it expecting guys to be the ones who initiate. Though, many girls do assume that guys initiate most things.
But the same goes for me, though. I don't know if he's ready.
That's some pretty good stuff to think about, thanks!
We're both shy... We hold hands and hug and stuff, but that's about it.
So is he really your boyfriend then? Does he call you his girlfriend?
He does. We're in a normal relationship, we've just never kissed.
Really? That's good to hear!
Lol glad I could be of help. Have fun ;)