So I went on a tinder date with a guy a couple weeks back now. We hung out for a couple hours and then I spent the night at his (platonically, perhaps to his dismay). We kissed a bunch of times and cuddled so I didn’t not show interest in him. He was lovely, I liked him well enough but didn’t feel a huge connection or anything...
I felt bad for doing this but when he asked me out again a couple days later I said that I didn’t see it going anywhere and thought I should be upfront before anyone got attached. He was nice enough about it, responded a day after reading saying something about me being to young for him anyway. 😂
Anyway it’s been a couple weeks now, I felt super bad at first but I’m over it now. Not like he was in love with me or anything. I’ve been thinking about him a lot, and want to talk to him again but I think that would be wrong considering I rejected him?
Not sure what to do? Do I stick to my gut and leave him be, or seek him out and give it a shot, risking his feelings?
Most Helpful Guy
Stick with your gut leave him be. How would you feel if roles where reversed0
Most Helpful Girl
Let sleeping dogs lie. Go on dates with other people. Stop obsessing over someone who you don’t even think you’re going to be happy with.3