Frankly yea i feel good with paying no problems but i was wondering is she gonna lay on me in everything if i got married with her!
Talk about it with her. Does she pay for some things like gifts or idk? Try going on a trip and things like that, it's a good test if you think about living together or getting married one day.
Yea sometimes she pays for gifts, Trip idea is really amazing! You are smart I like it... Thanks
You are welcome :)
Hmmm no i insist only in our first date! And then she used to it lol! And she didn't try once to pay or insist that 🙈 and no she has no job! She still taking money from her parents
So she's just a user in general?
Sorry i didn't get you! What do you mean with user only?;
She uses people for things but adds no contribution
Hmmm i see, no she is not a user like that.. she contribute
What does she contribute?
Yea i think so too
But i think it's not good to tell your girlfriend to pay right?
That'd be like asking for gifts, it defeats the whole purpose. At the end of the day, money is just money, and should be secondary in a relationship, but you do need that balance. You buying her stuff is basically just showing you care and want her to have nice things, and her actions should say she appreciates that, and that she wants good things for you as well. For example, if she simply can't afford to help pay, she could instead insist on staying at home and cooking for you instead of going out to a restaurant. It wouldn't be about the money, but she'd still be making an effort to give and not only take.
Hmmm frankly no she has no job, but she is very a good economic family, I don't think she has a money problem! And no she never offered to pay or split! Not at all! Thanks for your answer.
Well this is not ok. You cannot pay for everything
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Thanks for your answer, hmmm yea i can say yes she did she bought me gifts for the birthday
Well, I think that she does need to put more effort in the relationship concerning the money. You can't pay everything, that's not how it works.
Yep you're right, that would be better, thanks for your answer
Hmmm it's normal for men to always paying lol but not all the time!! thanks for replying!
Yea lol! Looks like you got used a lot dude
Yea that's what I'm talking about! Its not normal
It should be shared or pay by alternatively