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I hope you realize that TV programs only get close enough to reality to pass as "possible". Reality is boring and has little entertainment value. Well, reality is boring for everyone else, except the individual who being fired from his job, or his house burns down, that kind of stuff.
Others mention 'self fulfilling prophecy". There is plenty of truth in "I watch tv... and I know I will never get that..." The way you write, we get the impression that you watch TV an awful lot of the time.
I don't know where you live, whether you are still a student or working or both. If you are not taking any classes, consider that is one way to meet guys. You will find more guys in an Automotive Maintenance and Repair class than in a Flower Arranging class or a Cooking/Baking/Sewing class.
Near where I live, there is a place with batting cages & pitching machines. Guys go there for batting practice. (American baseball)
If a young woman shows up, they will all notice. Even if her batting is atrocious.
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