- Yes it annoys me when a girl says she misses meVote A
- No it doesn’t annoy me, it shows she caresVote B
Guys, does it annoy you if a girl says she misses you? Let’s say a couple times a week?
What Guys Said 15
I get that I'm the exception. Let me explain. This also is a conditional thing. If my first girlfriend had said this I'd have been okay with it. We had a long distance relationship and I missed her a lot. It was comforting knowing she still loved and cared about me despite the distance... But then... my second girlfriend.
So my second girlfriend... don't get me wrong she was great, she's an amazing person. But, despite living about 15 minutes away we could rarely see each other due to complications with my family. We tried to make it work and we still got to see each other like three times a week, for a while it was four. And she told me she missed me a lot. The thing was (and I know this wasn't intentional on her part) it felt like she was guilt tripping me for not making a greater effort to see her. There was nothing I could do but I could never give an answer. I didn't miss her. it meant so much getting to see her so often when I barely talk to or get to see ANY of my close friends more than once a week. I couldn't be honest with her without hurting her because I didn't miss her. But she made me feel guilty because of how much she missed me. That's why I don't like girls telling me they miss me. In some instances it's okay, but don't just say it all the time. It can be awesome when you don't actually get to see each other that often but it just makes me feel like a bad boyfriend otherwise.1
I voted no. But that's for a long term relationship... if you're barely dating then you'll come off as crazy overly attached and he'll probably leave you1
I don't think I'd ever get annoyed by that.
But I don't currently have a girl who missed me when I'm gone... that I'm aware of, anyways.
I can't imagine who'd get annoyed by compliments.1
Yes. Negative. I will think she loves me and she should just have a clarity.1
My girlfriend is the only one that says that about me and it makes me feel good1
I like it rather !! it shows she is thinking about u and likes u.1
i miss all the ladies all girl on here are great people1
It's actually a turn on rather than a turn off1
No I think it is sweet1
Positive i love it when someone says they miss me1
Yes it annoys me when a girl says she misses me0
Nope it's fine!1
What Girls Said 2
Only if long Distance and been together for a while.1
It might get annoying even it is sweet at first.1
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