That would be weird and creepy.
I completely agree with you. Men seem to not have the responsibility of maturing until later in life. And even then it's questionable. Lol
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That's good to hear, I'm happy for you. People sometimes give my brother a hard time because he's 25 and he's dating a 19 year old. I'm confused by this because they're only 5 and a half years apart. I just always assumed women would be attracted to older guys anyways. It's just how nature made us.
I agree. It’s really just a maturity thing
My family hates him and tells me he’s only dating me because he just wants sex. (Absolute bs) his family adores me and thinks that I’m the greatest thing to happen to him and his two kids because they actually got to know me and see beyond my chronological age. My parents refused to do this
I'm pretty sure he likes you. If he just wanted sex than he wouldn't want to settle down with you, he'd be out there trying to hook up every other night. Maybe your parents are just upset to see you grow up so fast. That can be difficult for parents to accept, especially if it's to their daughter. And did you say that he already has kids?
Yup two kids. A 4 year old and a 7 year old from a previous marriage
Looks like you've got your stuff figured out.
I mean most people would want that in life I don’t want to be working putting my money in with stuff with a partner in debt waiting around not caring at all about life
Yes, you want your relationship to grow. Part of that is being financial stable and responsible. Most 20 somethings don't grasp that concept, you're really still an adolescent mentally at that age. But as you get older you will learn to adapt to the responsibilities of adulthood, which is excellent if you want a healthy relationship. I'm glad that you've already thought about this at your young age. Just make sure your partner understands that as well and you'll be in good shape!
I mean I’m not gold digger not expecting a millionaire but someone not in huge debt I’ll obviously help though but thanks
Hmm. That's interesting.
That's really smart of you. Just also remember to be careful dating guys your age as well. I would know, some of us can be real assholes. But there's also good ones too.
20 years is a big gap. How come you don't like grandpa's? Lol, I'm kidding.
no like 20 years old. I'm kind of the extreme where I'd prefer within 2 years but I've just come out of high school so that could influence my thinking.
Oh, gotcha. Yeah that's probably why you feel that way. As you get older you may broaden your horizon of potential partners but then again everyone is different.
That is a big gap but it's cool you found someone. My aunt and uncle are 17 years apart.
3 to 5 years seems to be the norm for age gaps between men and women.
I feel the same way about women to be honest. Although it makes me feel a bit weird.
Hmm, so no age cap for you? That's pretty cool.
No, no age cap.
Haha, that's good to hear.
I'm still getting used to the idea that I sometimes find older women as really attractive.
I have 16 year olds messaging me! I'm like noooooo lmfao
What? Really? That's funny though.
It is funny lol I have a 15 year old son and he's like that's do weird Mom
Yeah kids can be really weird nowadays for sure. But at that age they really don't know what they're doing at all. They're just boys.
Last year my friends mom gave me her number and said I should use it if I ever need some good company. I thought that was pretty awkward.
LoL 😂 kinda weird ya I'd never do that
She's single but it does seem a bit desperate to do that to your kids friend. Opened my eyes for sure, I never thought that would happen.
Ya I've seen a movie like that LoL 😂
Haha, which one?
I can't think of it but the Mom was boning teens LoL
Damn, mom is a savage. That was probably the name of it.
So you would date a freshman in college?
Really? Like in his 30s?
Right now I'm interested in someone in his 30s... So yeah
That's cool. I'm sure he's more mature then any guy your age or early 20s.
At least he's probably more career focused.
Most likely :)