There’s a guy I’m romantically involved with, and he told me because I’ve been guarded for four months ( which isn’t true) and that I’ve been holding back now it’s his turn to do so, and he’s very upset with me. He says he’s scared of showing feelings, and doesn’t know what to do anymore or what he wants. He says I’ve never put in effort which again isn’t true, and says he’s the one that always calls, and texts first. Everytime we patch things up he starts a fight and blames it on the fact that he’s begged for my affection. Why is he doing this?