" you as a girl were in a coffe shop , a guy comes and approaches you , he seemed cool and you had an interesting conversation , you think you might like him. at the end he proposed to meet up with you later on"
in which scenario you are more likely to meet him for a date?
scenario 1 :
"He asks you for your number , and texts you later and trys to set up the date. He is clearly persuing you and trying to get you on the date"
"He offers his number , invites you to join him later and text him. He is more laid back and giving you more space to make up you're mind".
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I'll admit, I'd be more expecting of scenario 1, but I'd actually appreciate scenario 2 more. I mean, if the guy is someone in whom I'm interested, then I'd be fine with scenario 1, but scenario 2 would be preferable for two reasons:
First, it'd let me plan and set the date on MY terms, which is something that, as a girl, I'm less likely to get the opportunity to do. Especially on a first date, of which guys almost always expect and are expected to be the planners. It'd be kind of unique, and I'd like that.
Second, it would communicate to me that he's entrusting me to make a decision--whether I should contact him, and to set up a first date. In the very least, it'd increase the likelihood that he values and respects my choices.
But, mostly, I'd appreciate it because it'd be a different approach. Different is interesting to me.1