the tao of davy...:P
i know one thing...every man was born to walk a path and if he does that one thing he will
(with good grace and communications) draw women in to him.
he picks up pick up skills along the way
that's the way it was meant to be
however if he either sacrifices that path and goes to chase a girl
or if he cheats by downloading pick up arts and then goes off his path to go chase a girl
..ultimately he betrays his manhood and loses both the girl and himself
and its a long walk back afterward
learning pick up will only delude him longer
and will never fill the gap inside
be the man and learn along the way
its always good to learn
but its not just about learning the words to say
but earning the power to say them
i truly believe that
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i completely agree with you, but I think that it extends further than just men. I think that essentially when you speak about this its for all humanity. The reason I say that is because they always say you always find love when you least expect it, meaning you always find it when you are doing your own thing. From my experience I've come to believe that is true.
So, I can see where for men this is more of a innate thing and it goes back to way before equality and all that. But lets be honest, it also has to do with woman. Men always say that they want a confident woman well a confident woman is usually doing her thing, something she shines at.
Also, as far as going off your heart's path, I think that for women its the same way. Have you ever dated a woman and all of a sudden its like she's completely different than the woman you met? Usually, its because someone or something has gotten inside of her head and she can't get it out. That's kind of the same thing as downloading cheats or listening to pick up artists... usually for us woman it comes in the form of our friends, the girls who usually have a few women in our arsenal bags that have been scorned, cheated or down and dirty played. Trust me, that can cloud your judgment. That betrayal is not only from the friend but also, to your own self because your heart gets caught up in the crossfire and mean tricks of head games.
Also, for girls you should never chase a guy either, because like you put its a really long way back.I guess this is my point, neither sex should chase the other why? because when you find it its a balance of give and take and you find yourself both putting in equal amounts of effort.. that's when you know that youve got something good.
The last thing you talk about is learning the so called art of pick up will never fill the man inside... well it will never fulfill the woman inside either why do you think that there are so many girls who seem to be the prettiest, got it all girls who are the most lonely and desperate? Just remember anytime you stray from the truth of yourself you start to live a lie, and once you down that everything & I mean everything begins to go downhill from there because everything feels off.1