The relationship ended because he felt he could not make me happy - this was due to my insecurities and Low-self esteem. I knew i had these issues throughout the duration of the relationship. I am trying to work on realizing i was wrong to not trust him (even though he did some things on social media, that i felt people should not do in relationships - no. I do not mean cheating btw). And so, i brought to something, and i guess my ex had enough of my nagging and complaining and he ended it. I feel very badly, because i loves him - but, i was unable to love myself and looked for him to validate me. And so, we argued a lot and i became Controlling in some ways with social media - always worrying what he’s doing on it. I want to give him some time. I want to apologize and i want to try again. However. When we broke up. He told me “it’s over. We will not change. Happiness i not there anymore” - this was through text of course.
I suggest before you apologize to him and think about reconciling you should work on your insecurities and self esteem first so that he will see that you changed.But dont forget that only you always come first. You are not doing this change for him, you are doing this for yourself.
^ what idontknow said
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You need to take care of yourself. Not just sit and watch the phone and the clock waiting for no contact to end. You need to clear your mind and fill your body and mind with other things. No contact will work to give you clarity to know what’s really important if you take care of yourself
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It's like on one end you are cutting off all ties, but the other is seeing who breaks first.
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It works, when you stop contact there is no contact.