I know but I'd rather not date any guy in my church, the gossip is unreal
Don't let gossip keep your from having a good relationship with someone. My experience in church, is that the people who gossip seem to be far higher in number, than the people who really do gossip. Dictate what you will do by your own understanding, beliefs and understanding of what you should do, and what is best to do. Don't let gossips, or anyone else, keep you from having a good thing. In this instance, a good relationship. Also, there are other churches with social groups and activities you can attend. Just go to one that is similar to yours in who they tend to attract.
Thanks, hope he finds you 😊
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That's what I'm thinking, I rather find a guy who's already waiting. I don't want a guy to wait for me
Well he can be religious but more so spiritual
Oh no software guys I meet are hella rude. My professor said they're just awkward but I don't know about that, they treat me like I'm some alien when they meet me. I'm a science major but I took a compsci class before and it was mostly guys and they did not know to interact with women. It's like they weren't use to it or just preferred to treat us differently.
Oh and religious is ok, I'm trying to be more but as of now I'm more spiritual
They probably seemed rude because, like you say, they didn't know how to act around women who aren't blood relatives. Maybe you should try online dating, and state that you don't believe in premarital sex. Though some guys may take that on as a challenge.
That could be it.Thanks, I don't do online dating anymore but maybe I'll try telling guys upfront instead of waiting to get to know them
If you're not that religious, may I ask why you want to wait for marriage?
I'm spiritual and believe in Christianity, I just don't attend church except for major holidays, thus I'm not reglious I know I'm a clingy person too and sensitive so I don't want to have sex with a guy that won't be there for the long haul. Plus I'm a perfectionist and over analyzer if I were to have sex I'd be on a mission to find a guy to marry who has the best sex... and we know that's a never ending quest.So you see if I only have sex with one guy I'll have nothing to compare him too
You can always have sex with a guy and then marry him.I was talking with a married couple I know and she told me that though they didn't wait for marriage, he was the only guy she ever had sex with. I was joking that, wow, he could tell you anything: "Yeah, you're lucky you have a man like me with a full three inches", "Not all guys can last 90 seconds", etc.
Lmao I don't care, hey if it feels good I don't need to live by societal standards. Better than having a one minute man! There's a song like that. And I thought about that but what if he doesn't marry me like we could be engaged and he breaks it off or cheats on me during his bachelors party I break it off
I want sex once married
It seems fun and I want children the natural way
And try Christianmingle. com
Ugh I hate online dating the only thing I've done was okcupid
Yeah well if you are Christian, and those values obviously mean something, then you want to date a christian. Leaving your church may not be an option, so either visit other churches, join a christian charity group, or christianmingle. com I mean you asked the question lol
Good point, ya dating within my church just gets messy I've observed how others turned out and I want no part. Usually I meet guys randomly who approach me while I'm out and about but it's hit or miss for whether they're a believer. I use to not care to wait til marriage just for love but now I've changed my ways
Well remember guys will say anything... you want christian then go to the source! Ttyl after you've found a man now stop wasting time on here lol
I'm not looking for a man on here, I ask questions about why a guy said or did something AND I answer people's questions. I love helping when I can😊I just signed up for Christianmingle, I didn't know it was free. And I see a few cute guys in my area. I never seen them before so I wonder where they hang out. Thanks, it's given me some more hope caz I'd rather meet a guy the old fashioned way
Well I was referring ro time spent here asking questions vs going and finding someone... Im glad you went to sign up... don't be ashamed of meeting someone on there, you have specific requirements and that site is full of people with the same principles. Maybe hey will post some sort of group function you can attend. Anyways, good luck 👍😊
Oh and by the chance you are in Ontario, send me a message, I know some Christian people in your age group
I live in California 🙄
Oh well scratch that lol
Lol Jewish guys want a Jewish girl
The Mosque. I don't know.
I'll just pray to GOD 🙏