Like when a guy says he likes you and wants to date and meet your family but also doesn't want it to get to serious.
Or treats you with care and respect in person but after he lives he won't talk to you for 2 days and when you ask he says your clingy? It's just confusing and honestly a turn off. Plus they say you're the confusing one! 😅 You think y'all could fill me in?
Most Helpful Guy
We're not giving signals at all.
You're overthinking everything and trying to infer deep truths from insignificant gestures that don't mean anything.
You know why men sometimes go two days without talking? Because we don't have anything to say! Do you have something to say? Then SAY IT! And maybe we'll have a conversation.
Also, guys don't go through massive mood swings every six hours, so if a guys says he loves you, that's how he feels, and if he doesn't say it again, it's not because his feelings have changed, it's because they haven't. Your last update is still current.
We don't feel the need to constantly repeat ourselves or talk just to fill up the silence. Sometimes we really like a little solitude. Before you came into our lives, we were loners, living on the edge, not tied down to anything, with no roots and no stake in the world. That's what it means to be a man. We're not connected to the world automatically, we have to go out in the wilderness and come back with something to earn our place. A woman already has her place, she was born with a place. A man has no place in the world unless a woman takes him in. And he had to earn it through years of struggle and sacrifice and by winning battles that nobody else even knows about.
Living that kind of life gives you a lot of memories in a short amount of time, it's not like living a safe, quiet life where everybody always caters to your every whim, protects you from any hardship, and everything is always magically taken care of.0
Most Helpful Girl
b none if that stuff IS serious. it feels good in the moment but its nothing you ant check out of. he wants the fun & intimacy of a relationship with an exit key.
itys not mixed. its just there are these odd symbols of convention where you do such & such when its at a certain level, but really you an do anything at any time independent of levels.
he's saying he likes it now but doesn't want to have to e obligated to continue it if he doesn't like it anymore. which is what dating is. you try all these things and play at relationship and it other works or not. if you just want to date as well there's no problem here. if you want something more committed then you guys are not suitable.
HOWEVER, I wouldn't persue things if he's disrespectful. wanting to trey things out is one thing but playing hot & cold is not part of that. he's just being a shit head.