VOTE and explain!
- Girls make the first move
- Guys make the first move
I can't really cast a vote, I have asked and been asked so it's more of a mutual thing I think. I've always asked more than been asked though so an opinion I'd think that guys ask but that doesn't leave out the possibility of a successful relationship from a girl asking
Girls need to make the first move more that's for sure! While there are some guys that don't like it, most would LOVE it! As for guys "not having a clue", this is because women are often TOO subtle about it. We notice, but if you leave room for doubt, we will doubt it (as would you).
Most of the time guys make the first move and it generally is seen as a must that the guy makes the first move which I personally think really really sucks...
Guys usually make the first move, but that's the girls who actually give the signal that it's ok for us to make it
Mostly guys. Its weird. My generation was never taught how to do this sort of thing. We are normally taught by porn and what we might overhear from our peers, maybe a little from trial and error. In a world like that, sometimes girls need to take the stand. Whether it be dropping bigger hints, making themselves more approachable or physically getting up and doing the approaching.
Normally it is that guys make the first move, but in our modern day a majority of girls like to "play hard to get" or do mind games with guys and I think it's become so off-putting that success isn't a clear cut outcome that guys just can't be bothered so they give up and wait for the girl to make a move
In all but one of the relationships I've been in I've been the one to make the first move. But I think that the one who normally is the less shy about it, is the one who's gonna be making the first move.
yeah, my girlfriend is actually the one who makes the first move... and she even asked me if I want to be her boyfriend and I said yes hahahhaa 'cause I had a crush on her and now we're 1 year and 2 months relationship 😊😊😊
I wish it was the other way around, but men are the ones who make the first move, usually
I think the majority is guys, but I wouldn't let that stop you (Or any other girl) from making the first move. I did and it turned out great.
I think girls make the first move in letting a guy know they're open to something but usually the guy asks the girl out from what I've seen
Depends what you consider a first move ;)
We went to see a movie together and I immediately lifted the armrest that separated us while he made the move for our first kiss (which was hours later).
I have hard four major relationships. In two the guy made the move in the other two I did
Does it matter... we are in 2018!
My experience is about 50/50.
I think it's better for the guy to make the first move.
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