My boyfriend has a friend that is a girl and there friendship is very close. They snapchat a lot and I am friends with her as well and she has a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows that I feel insecure around her but he insists that he loves me and even asked me to move in recently. He is amazing to me and says that he wants to be with me forever and start a family one day. I have insecurities and I am scared that he will leave me for her. He swears that I am the only one for him. But he thinks I am selfish for asking him to stop seeing her. Am I crazy? Why does he not understand?
Most Helpful Guy
If he was good friends with her before you guys started a relationship then you have no right to ask him not to see her. It would be difficult, I get that but 1 of the worst things people in relationships do is the "it's me or them, you need to choose" scenario. If she is a long term friend like a sister then you have nothing to worry about. Insecurities can ruin relationships so try to get passed it.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you're being insecure.
My SO has 2 best friends that are female. They grew up together and are really close. To begin with I felt a little threatened, but once I got to know the girls and understood the dynamic of their friendship, I was appeased. Now I'm friends with them too, and they're amazing people to me.
I think you need to get to know her better. Honestly, I'm amazed he's been so chill about your insecurities. If my SO told me not to see a male friend, I'd see major res flags.0