And, no, I’m not talking about a game of tag.
As a guy, how do you feel about being intensively pursued, romantically?
Have you ever been chased? Have you ever made someone chase you?
As a girl, have you ever chased a guy? How did he take it?
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Well, I think anyone wants to feel desired, really.
Being on the "receiving end" obviously does away with the uncertainty you normally have to face as the one doing the pursuing.
However, if there was no time for me to even develop an opinion about them then I would certainly be a little wary.
But as for "chasing", "courting" and "gender roles in dating" those are things I absolutely loathe the very ideas of.
I have a firm belief that relationships and their development is a mutual and organic endeavor.
Both of the involved have their own responsibility to determine whether they are interested in the other person or not.
Placing any kind of arbitrary hurdle into something that is presumably supposed to be in the best interest of every involved party is something I deem utterly moronic.
I was never "chased" per se, but all my relationships were indeed initiated by the other person.4