In dating preferences, what’s your top three on the 'dealbreaker' list?

In dating preferences, what’s your top three on the 'dealbreaker' list?

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  • 1. Being physically abusive. (Emotional abuse is terrible too, but I can be more forgiving there. I can handle a verbal outburst if it's a rare occurrence and followed by an apology, but if he commits any sort of physical violence against me, I walk away, then and there.)
    2. Having no sense of personal hygiene.
    3. "So, by when can I expect sex?"

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  • 1. Fat
    2. Puts in no effort/thinks they're a princess and the guy should do everything; buy her things all the time, drive her around etc.
    3. Socially retarded/boring to talk with

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  • Are there really that man iny guys that offended by weed smoking? Hell, maybe I won't be alone for long.

    1) immature
    2) unintelligent
    3) much bigger than me (140lbs
    5'9)

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  • 1. She's currently in a relationship
    2. She has no interest in self-improvement
    3. Very Very passive, I just can't stand someone who is extremely passive.

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  • 1. Diva behavior
    2. Wearing pink, while being blond
    3. Insecure, to the point where she tells me, what she thinks I want to hear instead of the truth

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  • 1. Currently in a relationship
    2. Does drugs
    3. Has a penis.

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    • #3 made me laugh man. I probably wouldn't have put that on my list, but it most definitely would be a deal breaker for me as well

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    • @Rissyanne I wasn’t speaking in the literal sense of having a vagina.
      I’m fully aware of the LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 community. I Have lesbian relatives and a good friend is transitioning from f/m. Had his breasts removed last year.

    • I dont support the whole transgender thing. I believe it is a mental illness and these people need help. They dont need to be enabled.

  • 1) Unwillingness to compromise
    2) Disloyalty
    3) Poor health due to lack of exercise or substance abuse

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  • Probably
    1) uses drugs
    2) poor communication
    3) poor communication (worth stating twice)

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  • Uses Drugs,
    Currently with someone,
    Has no goals/ direction in life

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  • In no particular order
    1. Does any sort of Illegal drug
    2. Fails to communicate effectively
    3. Can't make up her mind.

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  • 1. When I do everything I can and she still don't let me get some
    2. When she only wanna talk about herself
    3. When she completely selfish and don't care about your interests

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  • 1. Slavers after hot cars
    2. Wants to play golf
    3. Conventional political views.

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  • Every third word is a cuss.
    No positive thought.
    Irritating laughter.

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  • Smokes cigarettes.
    Too much makeup.
    Is a communist.

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  • 3. out of shape
    2. lazy/ambitionless
    1. no sense of humor

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  • 1. Lack of communicative skills
    2. Having doubts about feelings for me
    3. Being a feminazi and a child free

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  • 1. Abusive
    (Mental and physical.)
    2. Hypocritical
    (And backstabbing.)
    3. Has a peen
    (Just my sexual preference, I like women. Real women.)

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    • "Yeah, she was the perfect woman for me. If it wasn't for her dick."

  • 1. Addiction
    2. Fickle minded
    3. Completely dependent on others

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  • Sarcastic personality, Lack of Communication, Hates dogs

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  • Arrogance
    poor hygiene
    addicted to smoking/alcohol/drugs

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  • In any relationship
    Past history of cheating
    Uses recreational drugs or abuses prescription meds

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  • Unenthusiastic.
    Can't hold a conversation.
    Compulsively lies.

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  • Ummm, with not over thinking it far too much, the first 3 that strikes to mind are:

    1. Someone who isn't driven in life - can't stand someone who simply is comfortable and just settles (This applies for work, daily life habits... est.)

    2. Doesn't share the same general moral and values as I do

    3. Is a terrible communicator of speaking out his feelings and thoughts

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  • Lack of hygiene (he should have clean teeth, cut nails, smells nice, etc)
    Selfish and iimpolite, especially to waiters, workers, etc
    Misogynistic (you say "tits', "bitch", etc you're out)

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  • 1. Smoking, doing hard drugs
    2. No college degree
    3. Poor hygiene

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  • Smokes/does drugs, already is in a relationship, doesn’t know where his life is going

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  • Has to own 4 mil

    Has to have a yearly salary of 700,000

    Has to have a luxury class car

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    • Low standards tbh

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    • Lol every teen desires at that age.

      Be careful tho, you may find someone with what you seek, but in addition might have other traits that girls have mention they don't want.

      It is very difficult to have an ambitious mind with a humble hard.

    • I don't care how he treats me, as long as he's richhhh

  • Hates dogs
    Isn’t affectionate
    And someone who doesn’t have a sense of humor

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  • Recently divorced... a man with no children... a man who isn't financially stable.

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  • Drug use, alcohol use, rudeness/being inconsiderate.

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  • 1- A frozen heart
    2- No manners whatsoever
    3- Glasses

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  • - lack of intelligence
    - gayness
    - fake assholes.

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    • I am curious about this one.
      What do you mean with gayness?
      -In appearance and dressing
      -Body and characteristics
      -Way it acts and likings

    • @TheGreyVisionary mostly way it acts and likings and maybe sense of style and actual gayness (the desire for dude on duede action).

    • O ok, thanks for the info.

  • smokers, cheaters and liars

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  • Bad hygiene, excessive drug use, bad temper, etc..

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  • pushy
    inconsiderate
    drug use

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  • Promiscuity
    Submissive
    Abusive in any way.

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  • abusive
    bad hygiene
    has a dog

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  • 1. Lack of communication
    2. Can’t hold a conversation
    3. Not a gentleman. You can always tell that one right from the first date. If a guy doesn’t at least offer to pay, it throws me off. I feel like the girl should pay for dates occasionally though as well.

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