Also, when asking a guy somewhere but finishing by saying to them "but there's no pressure" does that ruin any image of any confidence that a girl may have had when asking a guy out?
- Yes it is ok for girls to ask first
- No it isn't, girls should wait for the guy
Most Helpful Guy
It's not bad per se, just understand that if your crush is too weak to lead, make decisions, and be the man, that he's likely awful in bed too, will cry a lot, and you'll soon grow bored to tears with him.
If you take up a LTR with him chances are high that when you DO get bored, and you will, then you'll shut down sexually, bail, cheat, or any combination.
This a biological imperative. And why the GUYS ask the GIRLS out. You want him to LEAD.
And the more a girl acts like a guy the less desirable she is to a REAL MAN.
Choose wisely, treat kindly. _Dr. Laura
Most Helpful Girl
It could be either one. But if a woman is the one it is fine by me. What is the difference of a man asking out and a woman asking out? Just becauase of gender?
Now this is the scenario when a man and a woman are int heir mid 40´s and single both who has to do the asking? What if I contact the guy first and tell him my intentions of going out with him., Will taht be wrong? Im currently in the situation. But I know that up to the guy I will wait forever for him to even make a move to contact me, will it be ok if I contact him first?