So i guess im picky when it comes to the opposite sex. Im old school, i like guys askin to go on a date, paying for dinner and being a gentleman. Not the other way around. Do thet even exist anymore?
So i went out with this guy and because he asked me to hang out he thought i was gonna sleep with him. Like wtf nooooo. Then becauss he didn't get what he wanted he started calling me a bitch and a bunch of not right names like wtf. Really. Is that how guys are now a days. What happened to those guys giving flowers to the girl. Opening the door and basically treating her like a princess. Do they not exist anymore?
Or what about this other dude askin me out through text. Like text is not a problem but i would think if u liked her u would tried in person to persuade her to go out with u. And if she says no through text would u call her a bitch again?
Nowadays thats all the dudes i run into. Its disappointing.
Most Helpful Guy
I had a first date with a lady last night. I picked her up at her condo. I opened the car door for her. When we got to the restaurant, I helped her remove her wrap and to get seated. I paid for our meal; she has much more money that I do, but I would never consider asking her to pay for anything. When she invited me back to her condo for a drink after dinner, I did not assume that she wanted to have sex. In fact, I hoped that was not what she intended, because I want a woman who does not jump into bed with every guy on the first date. At the end of the evening, I gave her a good night kiss and told her that I want to see her again. We decided to see each other again next weekend. I told her it was a wonderful first date and then said good night. By my standards, it was a wonderful first date and I look forward to seeing her again
We are not yet extinct. I think some guys in your generation get the idea. I think it is more common among the better educated, more intelligent younger guys.22
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Most Helpful Girl
i have only dated guys who are gentlemen.
if i don't like the way they talk to me i block them or play them then toss them away... its easy to tell the intend of a guy when you know what you want.
sometimes you read between the lines from text messages or from a few phone calls...
if they dont want to call you the time you want them, drop them. if they dont sound like a gentleman over text, drop them.
you will have to learn to go through a lot of guys who have been spoiled by stupid girls nowadays. sadly but true.
there are guys out there who will treat you right when you "train" them...
dont go out with them till they have called you enough times that they are the one who pursued you over the phone, who asked about you and care about you. then asked what are some fun things he has in mind to do when out on a date... its a learning experence for you and him.