I know both partners will find others attractive. I know both partners will likely have a sexual past. I know both partners are individuals. But, sometimes i can’t help but get jealous and insecure. My boyfriend has never cheated on me. I get jealous about social media likes/follows. And sometimes i get jealous with him around other girls if he seems to be enjoying conversation with them. I try and keep these jealousies to myself. However, sometimes it is hard.
How do some people never get jealous? My boyfriend, i know he gets jealous sometimes. But, he just brushes it off and never tells me “x y and z made me feel jealous”. I wish i could be more like that.
Most Helpful Guy
If you have trust issues, that is something you will need to work through.
I've never had a problem being mature and believing people when they say things. You have to be open to vulnerability. You may just be too afraid to get hurt, so you're always suspicious by default so that if something ever goes wrong, you'll feel less hurt because you expected it. Puts a real damper on a whole relationship. Just be vulnerable and open. Don't just say you're jealous, say out loud why you're jealous. You have to confront your own feelings, and that's something an app can't do for you.1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly this has always been relatively easy for me, because I found a guy I trusted. I'm just not a jealous person and figure if I was constantly getting jealous there's either something wrong with me or I'm not fulfilled.
I don't get jealous because I know that humans are humans and just because a girl has a pussy doesn't make her a threat. He's not dumb enough to fuck around like that.1