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Looks are important. Maybe not the body to some people, but the facial attraction is important for both sexes. If a man or woman has f'd up teeth, crazy scarring, disproportionate features, etc. that can be off-putting to anyone. I also think overweight and obese people, in general, have trouble finding partners for sex and relationships. Some have high standards or at least expect a partner with a healthy weight when they themselves are not. In the end, we have to either work hard to improve or learn to settle (or not be so shallow).