How do I get him to pursue me
It's not my home church so I dont want to take his time while he's at work to flirt when he's really busy on weekends
As a pastor would it be weird to slide in his DM when he post something without being thirsty like the females that are interested.
He doesn't date members ( which is smart) but like I said before, I visit often... which means it's fine for me right?
I just want to be grown about it and have us get to know each other... nothing crazy
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If by all men have a penis, you're right, we're all the same (well, that's not entirely true for all men). If you want to show interest in your pastor without it being obvious, make your interest known when parishioners aren't around, and don't make googly eyes with him during service when anyone can see you. Just keep in mind, he may have taken a vow of celibacy, in which case he probably would prefer to avoid temptation.