I'm the type that doesn't necessarily put all of my business out there, but will occasionally post a cute photo of my significant other. I've never changed my relationship status, I've never posted couple pictures of the two of us, and with my current relationship, he and I aren't even adding each other on social media (maybe in the future but for now we aren't).
When I tell people that, they seem to think it speaks volumes about the relationship in a negative way, like if I'm not flooding people's Facebook feed with pictures and what I'm doing with my significant other, the relationship must not be a happy one. It's like the equivalent of "pics or it didn't happen" in a way. My relationship is nearly 6 months old and only three people in my life know I'm not single, simply because nobody even asks anymore, they just assume if it's not online, it's not happening.
Does anyone else keep their romantic business completely out of the public eye? Have you ever had a relationship where you didn't post anything about it online?
Do you assume a relationship sucks if people don't post all the good stuff about it online?