Most Helpful Girl
I guess for some girls it is. But some can find much more satisfaction in toys. Toys give you TONS of orgasms, easy to use, no risk of disease or pregnancy, and most importantly doesn't hurt- unless you're a masochist, but yeah- because you KNOW how to please yourself in non-painful ways.
Sex is a little different. It has risks, the guy you're with doesn't know your body the way you do, and once they get going, even if it hurts they might not notice., which while it isn't always their fault sucks for us. Only 30% of women can orgasm from it. Really, it's a bit of a chore.
Most Helpful Guy
It is not
The big deal is how they express it. By being overly sleazy when single. Or pressuring women who they are with