Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it absolutely will. Nobody is compelled by someone who is riddled with insecurity. Even self deprecating humour becomes tiresome after a while. If you were looking to buy a car and you saw one advertised saying "This car is a total piece of shit", would you buy it? Of course you wouldn't.
Most Helpful Girl
Be confident in who you are. If you can't accept yourself how can you expect a whole other person to accept and appreciate you? Besides looks dont last forever, so if a woman is interested in the long run, she will be far more invested in your heart☺️