Most Helpful Guy
I think many girls love and become almost addicted to the “moonlighting phase” of a relationship; when infatuation and emotions run high, in the beginning. However, usually it lasts longer than a few months, for me it starts fading after two years and think it’s why lots of relationships last two years. You have to transition to being able to do very practical, unsexy, impersonal, responsible things together and both learned how annoying the other person is and how much they take you for granted.
What you should keep in mind is to not get too comfortable, be spontaneous and not fixated on what you don’t want to do but express and do what you do want to do, and make plans and be open to being spontaneous and creative; with with plans or day-to-day time together
Most Helpful Girl
3 months seem quick to be over the honeymoon phase and in a healthy relationship levels of effort should be maintained and want to be maintained. If he is already getting comfortable to the point where he is half assing it then I dont think he is as invested in the relationship and it is a red flag.
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