No woman ever wanted me and some female friends have felt the need to tell how they screwed some other guy they just met and some where old guys... Like wtf... not even my age is a winning factor to these women.
I keep getting rejected and nothing I do seems to work. I workout, and try to stay groomed. Seems like nothing works. I have become bitter and full of disgust. I keep thinking about how its my fault somehow. Like I'm not good enough as a person or how I just don't matter.
I was good friends with a girl once and I actually thought were starting to be a couple until she dropped a text on me saying she was with a "romantic interest" at the "library". Bam! Got heartbroken. But for some reason it didn't hit me as hard as I expected. Sure I became homeless a week after that but for some reason since then, my heart has become blackened and scarred from all the heart breaks I have felt over the span of my life.
No woman ever showed interest in me no matter what I did. I wasted enough of my time trying to find a special someone that all I ended up being was just some emotional tampon, getting Friendzoned to death, or just being led on.
I'm thinking of joining the military since nobody will even mourn me if I were to ever die, getting bomb disposal as a job since I stopped caring about dying. Who will stop me? My non existential next of kin? Lol!
All the women I have met have been shallow and heartless. I already know what some may post in the comment section " not all women" but lets face it ladies, you always have a reason whether its a good or bad one.
To wrap this up, I'm 26, virgin, bitter as hell and I dont care about being killed. Why should I even bother looking for a woman who most likely won't even want me?
Most Helpful Guy
All I’ve ever wanted is to be a dad. I know where you are coming from. It isn’t just you. Women ARE shallow and cruel. They just don’t want to admit it and instead point the blame back at us. I’m 29, am close to a 4th suicide attempt, and nothing helps. The truth is that not everyone gets to be happy. You see people post crap like “you have to be happy first,” and that’s the problem. We become happy through external validation. When people treat us like crap, we feel like crap. All you can do is trudge on day by day. Maybe, MAYBE, you will come across the unicorn. A caring, decent woman who will see you for who you are and see the potential in you. I personally have given up hope. Maybe you’ll make it.
The military won’t help you. They screen for depression and suicidal tendencies because it makes you a danger to the unit.
Most Helpful Girl
The thing is, you seem to place a huuuuge value on having a girlfriend but what is your value as a person? Are you interesting and fun to be around? Charismatic? Supportive? Have a job that provides independence and personal growth? Hobbies someone can share with you?
I know you’re only adding context to the situation you feel is important, but the reality is bitter people present that image and the negativity is unattractive in a friend but also a huge red flag in the dating world. No one wants to be with someone they have to “fix” or try constantly to help them see their value over their own negativity
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