How to not be just the stand in boyfriend?

So quite often, I end up bring the guy girls want to spend time with, doing romantic things with them, and Im the guy who they call to fix things and/or if they need to talk to someone about something personal.

I first thought they might think Im gay, so I makesure they know Im into girls. But then they still go on dates (usually dragging me as a third wheel) and then having sex with these guys they barely know. I dont know what Im doing wrong.

I feel like a place holder until they want sex.

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  • Bruh, first off you need to establish yourself as an alpha because right now your friends only see you as a beta. Second, dont make yourself so readily available. Im not saying to disappear, just dont be 'there' all the time. And it wouldn't hurt to be a bit of a dick (dont go full dick) on occasion.

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  • Learn to say no, withhold your attention from them. Stop giving when you receive nothing in return.

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  • Then don't be a placeholder you have a choice you know so choose.

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