Anyway I've recently got out of a 7 year on /off relationship. She kept cheating and lying behind my back and i found out months later, so i ended our relationship 3 months ago.
I know it may seem to quick to move on... but long story short I've been seeing this other girl (after a few rebound girls). We have started dating for about 3 weeks now and I've got strong feelings for her. She has a house with a housemate (a dude) and she doesn't have a good income to support a house. Every time I've seen her we have slept together (even on TOM).
Last night we where watching a movie and she wanted a massarge but she said without sex. I've also noticed her being a bit less affectionate before that too.
Anyway i woke up this morning with bad thoughts running through my head like... *what if her house mate is paying for sex so she can get by and she owes him? * then i think she likes me and she has said she wants a future together and I do too.
But these feelings i get when i have these thoughts running through my head make me feel sick in the stomach. Any advice? Has anyone experienced something similar?
Most Helpful Girl
This is the mostake that most of the guys do. Playing Hard- The good ol' technique to make a girl attracted to you but dude maybe it's not that good. Unlike guys, playing hard is a turn-off for most of the girls. They like a guy with self respect, not the one with false ego. Moreover, tbh I don't think that you should play mind games when it comes to a relationship
Most Helpful Guy
Don't assume anything just yet. Continue your relationship, but keep an eye out for any red flags.