It was like meeting an old friend. It was so refreshing. Near the end, after he closed the tab (even when I insisted I can pay...), he asked what I would like to do in the future. I told him I was down for anything he wants and told him my availability. He then asked if I wanted to see him again and I eagerly agreed. I also reminded him he has my number and is more than welcome to reach out anytime. After, I hailed a cab (he even offered to take me home, but I refused since I discovered we lived in difference parts of the city) and we hugged and he told me to text him when I got home which I did.
He then said he had a nice time.
That was a week ago. He hasn’t reached out or asked me out again since. I decided to text him twice during the week just as a quick check in. One to tell him I hope his week is going well, which he responded 3 hours later. He asked how mine was, but after I told him, he did not respond. Then, I texted again three days later, referring to an inside joke of our date. He responded again 3 hours later. But after I replied to what he said, he didn’t keep the conversation going. Is he playing hard to get or has he simply lost interest in me? Before the date, we were texting constantly, and now I feel like I imagined everything. Ball’s in his court now, but do you think I should reach out again and be more obvious and ask him out? Or move on?
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Time to move on I think. I don't think he's playing hard to get, it does sound like he's lost interest. These things happen unfortunately, try not to worry about it and get back and meet other people.