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Unfortunately I know where you're coming from... and it's a place of fear and anxiety. And we all want certainty... but the hard facts of life tell us that there IS no certainty.Some women love deeply but don't show it. Some women don't love at all but fake it. Some women treat us like kings for 8 years and then start sleeping with guys from the office.There's nothing we can do about it except get ourselves RIGHT in our own minds and hearts.So my advice is this... it doesn't matter if she "really" loves you. All that matters is how you FEEL when you're with her, and how she treats you.It helps to learn a little about how you prefer to receive love too.. I'd recommend the book "The Five Love Languages" so that you can discover for yourself how you prefer to receive love.And once you know this, teach this to her. Some guys need more touch, some guys need more verbal affirmations. The trick is to teach our partners how we feel loved, so that they can meet those needs should they choose to. And visa versa.If she treats you well, then why does it matter if she's faking it or meaning it... either way she's doing it!The more confident and happy a man you become the less you're concerned with questions like this, because in your heart you'll be able to FEEL how she FEELS, and you'll never let her treat you poorly.Trust me, take off the fear glasses, and put on your love glasses... and look at her then. If she's showing you her love you'll see it when you're looking for it.And if you're being insecure then all you will see are signs that she's not that into you.When in doubt, assume the BEST!~ Robby
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