Guys, Was he ever into me or what could he be thinking?

So i have a big crush on this guy i use to work with and i use to look at him all the time, like staring. He obviously noticed and he responded by staring back at me, later on i even started to notice him staring at me when i wasn’t looking at him, and everytime i catched him doing it he would turn away really fast or hold my gaze. I use to catch him staring at me even across a crowded room.
After almost a year of this daily eye locking between us my friend told him that i like him, he then said ”i have a girlfriend and i don’t want to cheat on her” why even say that? It’s not like anyone said that he should cheat?

but still after that he continued to lock eyes with me all the time, i added him on facebook and no response, i don’t work with him anymore but i actually saw him at the train station (we had not seen eachother for a month) but still when he saw me he didn’t take his eyes off me until the train came, i then wrote him a message but no reply, that was 3 months ago.
my friend even texted him like a week ago asking why he doesn’t respond to me but he didn’t reply to her either... At first i was 100% sure that he was into me based on how he was acting twoards me but now i have no idéa.


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  • A year long staring contest isn't a whole lot to go on. If the guy doesn't want to reply to you then he's not interested in being more with you than a stranger. You ask "why even say that" but it's kinda clear you are attracted to him = more than just being friends.

    • But why not just avoid me then when he noticed me looking at him? Why continue looking at me like this if he never was attracted to me or wanted anything to do with me? I just don’t understand that

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    • So you actually think he would be interested in me then?

    • I wouldn't know such a thing

  • He sounds very attracted to you but seems unable to get rid of his relationship with the other for what ever reason. Maybe guilt he feels guilty to leave and remains unhappy but he wishes he could be with you...

    Can you look at mine

    Girls, Why did she look sad when she looked at me? ↗

    • But why won't he reply to my message? that is not cheating, and also even if he doesn’t like me he could still reply and tell me

    • He knows he's at the point where he woukd have to leave his girlfriend. He has some sort of attachment to her.. maybe guilt. . He diesnt want to completely blow you off either. . I would wait it out see what he does

    • Well im waiting... but it doesn’t feel like he’s ever gonna reply..

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